How do you solve any problem? If its math you use a calculator, leaking pipes you call a plumber. In other words you take responsibility to solve the problem. For that once in a life time journey who do you call?
Divorce, separation, neighbour, community and elder conflict and disputes. If you cannot agree to disagree use Mediation. It is the safer, easier and best option. Mediation let’s you get on with your life without mental boundaries.